Open House and an Update

After seemingly finding the magic cocktail of meds at the hospital to control Jen’s nausea and vomiting, they are no longer working.  Hospice continues to try options to make Jen more comfortable.  However, right now, any liquids or movement out of bed triggers more vomiting.  So she is in bed and using oxygen.

Jen’s highlight this week was going to Corbin’s Open House at his new school on Thursday night.  It was her sheer determination that carried her through the evening.  Corbin enjoyed being  her chauffeur, pushing her wheelchair around the school.

We are reading your emails and comments to Jen as your prayers and support are so comforting to her and our family.

With love from Jen and her family

Jen
Living legendary as a mom with Stage IV breast cancer. Author of Learning to Live Legendary and What You Might Not Know: My Life as a Stage IV Cancer Patient.
  1. Keli Reply

    Praying for you Jen and your family! Praying for comfort! Your are in my thoughts and prayers everyday! Lots of hugs!!!

  2. Stephanie Reply

    Sending many hugs, and prayers for peace, comfort, and strength for everyone. Love you Jen!

  3. Mac Reply

    Prayers for you, Jen for your poor body to soothed. Prayers of comfort for your family. Know that your story has touched me deeply.

  4. Janice Reply

    Sending prayers and hugs – I found Jen on twitter and have always been in awe of her strength. Hearing that she made it to her son’s school, just proves it to me again. Thank you for the update.
    Positive vibes from Toronto xo

  5. Karen Andrews Reply

    Oh, Jen, so glad to hear you were able to attend Corbin’s Open House!! I’m sure it emant the world to him. Continued prayers for you, Corbin and your family. Love, Karen

  6. Amanda Bos Reply

    I can imagine the ear to ear grin on Corbin’s face as he showed you around, Jen. :) While I have not met Corbin in person, through your stories and pictures, I feel as though I know him as a courageous, kind, warm hearted little boy who is going to grow up to be an amazing man… Thanks to his incredible mommy. Love you, Jen.

  7. Wanda Crouse Reply

    Praying for you, Jen — and Corbin. I am amazed at your courage — it will be a wonderful memory for Corbin to cherish about his Mommy.

  8. Carey Phillips Reply

    Jen,
    Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I miss your hugs and smile. I can’t imagine what you are going through. I have lost many family members to cancer so I can relate to your family a tad. Y’all’s strength and determination are admirable. I’m so blessed to have met you. I love you, Sunshine.

  9. joni utnage Reply

    HI Jen! I can only imagine proud little Corbin showing you his school and showing you off. He’s so proud of you! So happy you were able to go to the open house.

    While I know you are having family read emails and posts to you, can we send cards somewhere? I know the posts and emails mean the world to you but seeing cards around your room when you open you eyes will show you the love and support from all of us. You won’t have to read to feel the support, you’ll just see it.

    I’m praying for the nausea to lighten up and hope that the weather allows you to get a little more fresh air. It was excessively hot last week so hoping this week is better for you. Sending all my love, Joni Utnage

  10. Christine Reply

    Many prayers and sending you hugs Jen.

  11. Julie Pendzialek Reply

    Thinking of you & your family!

  12. Deborah Bollman Reply

    You are truly an inspiration to others my dear friend!
    Xoxoxo,
    Deb

  13. Cheryl Huffman Reply

    Jen I just wanted you to know you have been in my thought and prayers. You have truly lived a legendary life. Corbin has an amazing Mommy and what wonderful memories you will always be a part of.
    Your fellow JLCU social worker
    YOU have always been kind and caring to those in need.

    God bless you and your family and I wish you peace and comfort !

  14. Bud Coleman Reply

    We all love you Jen and we are with you in spirit everyday!! We pray for you and your family!!! Keep fighting the good fight . God Bless You! You have changed my attitude about a lot of things and I will never forget. I will try to help others to stay positive against all odds.

  15. Casey Reply

    Jen,
      My heart aches for you and your family as I read about the pain and discomfort you are in. I know there is nothing I can say or do to ease what is happening, and my heart truly breaks for you. I do hope you take peace in knowing how many lives you have touched by being who you are. The most important one being, Corbin’s. You have given him a lifetime of memories…More memories than most that live to 100 would have.
       My dad died at the age of 45 after a brief 13 week battle with cancer, that summer as he lay up in bed and we would take care of him, he would tell us daily, “it doesn’t matter if you live to be 45 or 85 it’s how you live your life!” He taught me more in my too short time with him than anyone else ever has. He taught me to live my life, because of him I don’t take one day for granted…it’s a gift!
      Jen, you have truly lived your life in every sense of the word…doing things that people only dream of doing in a lifetime. And you have made the most beautiful memories while doing that with Corbin, he will forever have those memories. Corbin will forever know that with all your greatest achievements and accomplishments, he is your #1.
      Corbin will forever be so proud to be Jen Smith’s one and only son…that is legendary!                                                                    You are legendary!!!
     
    xoxo,
    casey

  16. Michelle Reply

    Jen,

    RJ and I have been praying for you and your family every night. I am so sorry to read that you are in so much pain and feeling so sick. You are truly a fantastic mother, friend, daughter, sister and a warrior. I admire you so much. You have inspired so many people. You have changed the way people look at life (me being one of them). I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to know you in college and to have reconnected, even if for a short time, again later in our lives.

    Corbin is a wonderful little boy and I know he will always be proud to have you as his mom!

    xoxo
    Michelle

  17. Adriene Rose Bowen Reply

    Hello Jen -

    My family thinks about you & your family every day. Prayers for peace & comfort. A little group that I am involved with raised over $5k last week for Breast Cancer. I donated your books to the auction & know that they will bring comfort & continue to spread your message of living legendary. God Bless You.

  18. Mary-Robins Aunt Reply

    Dearest warrior woman,thank you for sharing your time with us.May you be peaceful and happy.heart hugs!

  19. Lauran (Cort) Cacciatori Reply

    Hi Jen, I just got your books from Amazon over the weekend and look forward to reading them in the next few weeks. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family. xoxo

  20. Laura Dahl Reply

    Hi Jen!

    So glad to hear that you are still Living Legendary and getting out to support Corbin! You are an amazing person and a great inspiration! I have been praying for you, Corbin and your family every day. God bless you Jen!

    Peace,
    Laura

  21. Jeanne R. Reply

    I have not met Jen but have gotten to know her through one of her dear friends. What an amazing inspiration she is! I am not sure if I can post a link to YouTube or not, but this song is so beautiful and powerful that I wanted to be sure to share it with Jen and all those who love her. It is “Need You Now” by Plumb.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bKEtqaGgfXo

  22. GloriaG Reply

    Sending gentle hugs, prayers for your comfort and peace and strength to you and your family. You are such an inspiration and teacher in how to live legendary.
    Love and light, Gloria

  23. Amy Reply

    “What is dying? I am standing on the seashore. A ship sails to the morning breeze and starts for the ocean. She is an object of beauty and I stand watching her till at last she fades on the horizon, and someone at my side says, “She is gone.” Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all; she is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when I saw her, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to its destination.

    The diminished size and total loss of sight is in me, not in her; and just at the moment when someone at my side says, “She is gone,” there are others who are watching her coming,and other voices take up the glad shout, “There she comes!”–and that is dying.”

    ~ Bishop Brent

  24. Heather Reply

    Sending prayers for peace and courage to all of you.

  25. Carla Reply

    Thank you for setting an example how to live and die. I am especially grateful for your recent comments about Hospice – and passed them along to an aunt who just this week was informed she has no treatment options left. I have great regard for your faith walk and ask God for dying grace. Nausea is exhausting and all-consuming and I hope your care providers find a new magic cocktail. When I think about Corbin I think about how he is now old enough to have created his own memories of and with you… and how you have made that happen. Well done, mama Jen.

  26. Laura Christman Reply

    Jen, I read your second book this weekend and was touched beyond words. You are hands down the most amazing person I have ever had the priviledge to know. You continue to give of yourself and think of others in the face of your own pain and exhaustion. I am so glad and impressed that you were able to power through Corbin’s open house this week. I know it meant a ton to him to share that with you and I hope it will give you peace and comfort getting to better know his new school and teacher. You and your family set an amazing example of love, committment and compassion that many of the rest of us can only hope to achieve some day. You and Corbin are in my thoughts many times throughout each day and I pray for you with every one of those thoughts. I pray for your comfort and for many more moments and memories with Corbin.
    Love, Laura

  27. Teresa Ridenhour Reply

    So thankful you got to attend Corbin’s open house. There are no words only prayers for comfort. I love you dear friend.

  28. Karen Flynn Reply

    Dear Jen,

    Always thinking about you.
    I carry your “Living Legendary” book in my work bag. Your book is so wonderful! I like to have it with me; it reminds me of how to live and cherish each day…to stay in the present and enjoy life. You have taught me so much, and I truly thank you.

    God’s peace, Karen

  29. Joy Reply

    Bravo! Amazing to attend Corbin’s Open House with how crappy you feel…I’m sure it meant the world to him to have you there, Jen. Love you, and wishing you peace and comfort.

  30. Jennifer Reply

    Bought and read your second book this week Jen …you truly are a stellar human being…Corbin is so lucky to have your genes …you will live on…in him and through him…and you have touched so many lives…including mine…warm wishes from another Jen…from south africa

  31. Robin Pletcher Reply

    Dear Jen, we are praying for you and will continue to pray for your family too. I hope you can find comfort and peace. May you hear your favorite songs and cherished stories, soak in Corbin’s smiles and feel warm rays of sunshine from above when you need it most!

  32. Sandy Kumler Reply

    Hi Jen,
    I just wanted to take a minute and tell you that you are on my mind and in my prayers. Thank you for being a shining light in such dark place (cancerland). You’ve given such wonderful support to so many women through your blog and your books. I pray that your suffering will be minimal and your time with your family sweet. God bless your sweet spirit with His peace.
    Sandy

  33. Tricia Hays Evans Reply

    Dear Jen,
    I am so sad for you. You’ve reminded me that even stuck in this !*#!?# bed all the time, each day is a gift. I pray for peace for you and that you feel God’s love and the love of your family and friends.
    Love,
    Tricia

  34. Betsy Reply

    Jen, I spent the greater part of this past Saturday reading through your old LiveJournal entries. Gosh, it feels like a lifetime ago when we were all talking feeding schedules and baby sleep issues. I really do feel blessed to have known you, even if we will never meet in person. It sounds so trite and cliche, but I mean this – I have learned from you. You have shown me how to live with abandon. How to really, really live.

    You are such a light, Jen. Your life has been so full of hope and joy and gratitude. What a wonderful, beautiful life. I admire you greatly, and I will never forget having known you. Never. Thank you for always being so open and honest, and for letting so many people into your life. If I could take a piece of your pain and shoulder it for you, I would. We all would.

    The world will be a darker place without you in it. I look forward to meeting you on the other side.

    Until then, much love to you, precious, beautiful Jen.

    Betsy

  35. Tammie & Brian Smith Reply

    Praying for you and your family Jen. You are an Amazing woman! Sending you our love.

  36. AnneMarie Reply

    Sending love and light, Jen… No words, just love.

    xoxo

  37. Vicki Anderson Reply

    AnneMarie sums it up. “No words, just love.”

  38. Angie Reply

    IS 41:13
    For I, Jehovah your God, am grasping your right hand, the One saying to you, ‘Do not be afraid. I, myself will help you.’

    Blessing and prayers for you and your family.

  39. Sarah Reply

    Hi Jen and family, you don’t know me – I found your blog just a few days ago – but I just wanted you to know that I am sending you love and prayers too. It must be a terribly tough time for you all, but try not to be scared; so many people are clearly wishing you all well and sending love. Peace and strength to you, Sarah XXX

  40. hanna Reply

    You’re in my thoughts. Bless you Jen.

  41. Jen Reply

    Just thinking and praying for you, and so amazed at your strength to make it to Corbin’s open house. He is going to be a wonderful man when he grows up because of all of the love, support, and determination you showed him. Peace be with you.

  42. ICanDoThis Reply

    Sending caring thoughts thru the ether.
    May these days with Corbin be good.
    You are an amazing human being.

  43. Brittney Hessee Reply

    Jen,
    I think of you so often! Thank you for reaching out to me in my time of need!!! You are an inspiration to me and to others. Thank you for everything. God bless you.
    Xoxoxo,
    Brittney Hessee

  44. Kimberly Reply

    Addition heartfelt words beyond what have already been expressed so eloquently by all other ‘lovers of Jen’, escape me. I too, want to reiterate all the same sentiments already said. Additionally, I would like to say, THANK YOU for your willingness to be an authentic and mighty vessel for God’s use with your faith throughout the journey you’ve traveled. The number of lives affected for Eternity and the Glory of God’s Kingdom is beyond measure. I also thank you for immensely impacting my life with not only two books, but with three. The third, Seasons of Grief, which I received from you almost immediately after the sudden death of our son, is just one more testimony added to the mountain of others, exemplifying how you selflessly poor yourself out in love, compassion, and generosity for the welfare of others.

    A special way I express my love and adoration beyond words to my college freshman daughter while not being in her physical presence, I now offer to you as well…From my heart to yours, a huge hug which I express to you by means of an…((((air hug)))) !! Hope you felt it. ;)

    My family will be forever blessed by you, and will faithfully continue to pray for your family always.

  45. Zoe Kharpertian Reply

    Be at peace, Jen. You’ve done a brilliant job with your life, as a daughter, a mother, and a woman whose shared great courage, strength, understanding, and honest grief with those who travel the same path. You’ve touched the lives of more people than you’ll ever know – legendary is definitely YOUR word. You’ve spread enormous love and compassion and laid a foundation that will sustain those you leave behind with your tremendous spirit. Rest easy. (& know that I’ll be here for your mom, always.)

  46. Heather Todd Reply

    Jen, I’m so blessed to have had the opportunity to meet you last year in Raleigh, NC. You are an amazing woman and will leave an amazing legacy. I’m praying for you and your family. I hope to see you again some day in Heaven when we are all there worshiping our Lord, without pain and suffering and NO CANCER. Thank you so much for signing your book for me. I will treasure it. Many prayers. ~ Heather Todd, NC

  47. Sally Pleasant Reply

    Jen, I would like to share this simple prayer with you and your family;
    Compassionate Jesus,
    I remember your gentle invitation to
    “Come…and be refreshed.”
    I bring you now all my worries, fears, needs and doubts-
    and those of my world.
    I entrust to you my loved ones,
    Both living and deceased Enfold us all in your love,
    Now and evermore. Amen Love to you all, Sally

  48. Asia Reply

    Sending you my love

  49. Nicole Renée Reply

    Jen—Praying for peace that passes all understanding for you and your entire family . . . knowing full well He’s holding you in the palm of His hand. Love & Prayers ~ Nicole

  50. Julie Reply

    Not a day or hardly an hour goes by that you and Corbin and your whole family are not in my prayers. I think of you constantly and just hope you can be at peace and comfortable. I will be praying for your nausea to go away so that you can just feel a little bit like yourself. I am proud of you for who you are, for everything you do, and that no matter what, you are always there for that sweet baby. You’re the greatest mom in the world Jen, truly. He is going to be such an incredible young man because of your example, and for the life he has been so incredibly blessed with with you as his mom. God bless and keep you and wrap you in the warmth of His healing arms right now. Please make Jen feel better God… please.

  51. Stacey Reply

    Jen,
    I’m at the infinite boundaries retreat and I feel your presence here. I know how much you loved the retreat and thank you for suggesting it. My thoughts and tears are all about you as I travel through this journey. Xoxo

  52. Lisa C Reply

    I stumbled onto one of your blogs and videos just about two weeks ago and feel as though “meeting you” was meant to be. THANK YOU for being the inspiration that you are. Both you and your words “LIVING LEGENDARY” have been at the forefront of my thoughts and actions since I first heard and saw you. I can’t imagine the number of lives you’ve touched but I will remain grateful for the effect you’ve had on mine. Wishing you peace, love, and as many little Corbin hugs as possible. You’ve done good, Jen…VERY GOOD!

  53. Amy Reply

    Jen, sending lots of love and comfort your way. I hope you someone can find a better anti nausea regiment for you. :)

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